What you can expect

Usually, each of you will be asked to separately answer a written questionnaire to determine how you feel about yourselves, each other and your relationship. These forms can also help identify any strengths, weaknesses and potential problem areas — such as the need to improve listening skills. Together, you and your counselor will interpret your results and discuss areas of common unhappiness or disagreement. You'll set goals with your partner to help overcome challenges.

In addition, your counselor might ask you and your partner questions to find out your unique visions for your marriage and clarify your expectations and desires for your marriage.

Remember, preparing for marriage involves more than throwing a party to celebrate an engagement. Take the time to build a solid foundation for your relationship.